DEAR NAIJA GIRL

In Dear Naija Girl, embark on a powerful and evocative journey through the lives of Nigerian women as they navigate the complex landscape of gender, success, and societal expectations. This compelling collection of stories and experiences sheds light on the multifaceted challenges women face in Nigeria, revealing the resilience and strength required to be heard and achieve their dreams in a society that often judges and scrutinizes them.

Through true-life narratives, Dear Naija Girl unveils the silent struggles and triumphant victories of women who, despite appearing successful, must constantly defend their accomplishments against a backdrop of skepticism and prejudice. The book does not merely recount these ordeals but also offers insightful perspectives on the way forward, providing hope and inspiration for women striving for recognition and equality.

About The Book

In Dear Naija Girl, embark on a powerful and evocative journey through the lives of Nigerian women as they navigate the complex landscape of gender, success, and societal expectations. This compelling collection of stories and experiences sheds light on the multifaceted challenges women face in Nigeria, revealing the resilience and strength required to be heard and achieve their dreams in a society that often judges and scrutinizes them.

Through true-life narratives, Dear Naija Girl unveils the silent struggles and triumphant victories of women who, despite appearing successful, must constantly defend their accomplishments against a backdrop of skepticism and prejudice. The book does not merely recount these ordeals but also offers insightful perspectives on the way forward, providing hope and inspiration for women striving for recognition and equality.

Dear Naija Girl is a heartfelt tribute to the indomitable spirit of Nigerian women, a call for empathy and understanding, and a rallying cry for change. It is an essential read for anyone seeking to understand the unique experiences of women in Nigeria and the broader quest for gender equality in our world.

From the bustling streets of Lagos to the quiet villages of the countryside, this book traverses the diverse landscape of Nigeria, painting a vivid picture of the cultural, social, and economic factors that shape the lives of its women. Each chapter delves into personal anecdotes and profound reflections, offering a nuanced perspective on the intersection of tradition and modernity, and how it impacts the female experience.

Meet women who have shattered glass ceilings in their careers, only to face new challenges in their personal lives. Discover the untold stories of mothers, daughters, entrepreneurs, and activists who have battled against all odds to make their voices heard. Dear Naija Girl celebrates their courage, their ingenuity, and their unwavering determination to create a better future for themselves and future generations.

In addition to highlighting individual stories, the book also examines broader societal issues such as gender-based violence, educational disparities, and economic inequalities. It explores how systemic barriers hinder women’s progress and what can be done to dismantle these obstacles. The narratives are interwoven with thoughtful analysis and commentary, making Dear Naija Girl not just a collection of stories, but a powerful tool for advocacy and social change.

Ultimately, Dear Naija Girl is a testament to the strength and resilience of Nigerian women. This book will inspire, educate, and move readers, encouraging them to reflect on the importance of gender equality and the need for continued progress. Whether you are a Nigerian woman, an ally, or simply someone interested in understanding the unique challenges faced by women in different parts of the world, this book offers valuable insights and a call to action for a more just and equitable society.

What PEOPLE SAY ABOUT US

Praise For Dear Naija Girl

Cynthia 'Tasha' Osajibenedict's 'Dear Naija Girl' is a compelling personal record of a young woman's experiences of abuse (both physical and mental) and marginalization in Nigeria's patriarchal system, and the struggle to overcome a pervasive mindset in both men and woman that strongly resists change

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John Angus McNeil

Author,

here are some books that tell a great story and others that make you change the way you look at the world. Cynthia ‘Tasha’ Osajibenedict’s Dear Naija Girl is a book that manages to do both. “Cynthia ‘Tasha’ Osajibenedict’ s Dear Naija Girl is a dissertation on the very common factors that restrains the average Nigerian female from the actualization of their potential. In very graphic details copiously illustrated with stories, some personal, some adopted but, either way, relatable, Osajibendict gradually but forcefully, unleashes her disgust with those ingrained beliefs and tendencies that threaten the emancipation of Nigerian women and ultimately the country herself, even if unwittingly.

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Good Reads Review

An inspiring collection of stories that every woman should read.

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Griot Global Network

Cynthia captures the essence of womanhood in Nigeria with grace and authenticity

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African Book Review

Raw, real, and incredibly moving. A must-read!

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Good Reads Review

An eye-opening journey into the lives of resilient Nigerian women

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Good Reads Review

Cynthia's storytelling is both captivating and enlightening

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Ladies In Media

A beautiful tribute to the strength and courage of Nigerian women

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LIM Report

I couldn't put it down. Each story is more powerful than the last

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Good Reads review

A profound and thought-provoking book that stays with you long after you've read it

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Bookish Igbo Girl

Cynthia's writing is both poignant and empowering.

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Her Journey Africa

A truly enjoyable and relatable book. Feminism in Africa is at an all-time low, mostly stemming from a lack of understanding and a deep-rooted patriarchal culture. The stories of African women were so heart wrenching, I couldn't drop this book for one second till I finished it”

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Good Reads Review

An amazing book that not only shed light on the struggles of women in Nigeria but also on the battle for feminism and equality in a nation with a backward mindset

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Google Review

Dear Naija Girl is a book highlighting the experiences of women and what it means to be female in Nigeria

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Brittle Paper

A heartfelt and powerful read that sheds light on the true struggles of Nigerian women

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Daily News Central

Cynthia ‘Tasha’ Osajibenedict’ s Dear Naija Girl is a dissertation on the very common factors that restrains the average Nigerian female from actualisation of their potential. In very graphic details copiously illustrated with stories, some personal, some adopted but, either way, relatable, Osajibendict gradually but forcefully, unleashes her disgust with those ingrained beliefs and tendencies that threaten the emancipation of Nigerian women and ultimately the country herself, even if unwittingly. Although the title suggests so, this book is more than a treatise on how to be a girl or woman in Nigeria, it is also a guide for men on how to treat their women and build a country where equality and shared prosperity thrive. Most worthy of note about this part memoir, part guide to achieving gender parity in Nigeria is Osajibenedict’s honesty. Every man and woman who wants to their best at relationships should read it.”- Niran Adedokun, Author, Ladies calling the shots and The Danfo driver in all of us

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Dear Naija Girl is an Introspective yet poignant narrative of the pressures of femininity in a patriarchal society”- Precious ‘Mamazeus’ Nwogu, Film reporter/critic “Dear Naija Girl is like a buffet, there is something for everyone and Osajibenedict was able to touch several issues without losing focus. And even though her personal experience played a role, it didn’t contradict her research on the book, thereby reducing subjective bias. At the end of the book, I realized the question shouldn’t be why are you a feminist? It should be why aren’t you a feminist?You would not regret reading this book

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Eugenia Emelieze, MPH health policy & management

MPH health policy & management

This is a book you would want to read from start to finish, with hope for a solution and points that help change the narrative

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Margaret Barden

President, Ladies in Media

This book is a women empowerment book in an African version-

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Ewurabena,

Ghanaian book reviewer and blogger

A remarkable book that offers a rare glimpse into the lives of Nigerian women

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Bookish Igbo Queen

Emotionally charged and beautifully written. Highly recommended

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African Feminist

A powerful narrative that challenges societal norms and inspires change

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Annah Emenike

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